Would upset kids datedmarried interraciallyBishop postedNow I tried to avoid subjects like this because people consider them too controversial. I'm a young African American man who finds Caucasian American women (some of them) attractive more. I don't want to have to deal with so much hostility which could lead to a divorce or otherwise if I married outside my race. Would you have a problem if your kids preferred to date or marry someone of a different race? Sponsored Link-------------------------- falon repliedno what does color have to do with any thing. its how the person is on the inside not what color they are Cayyceee repliedabosolutly not 1. who cares what race they are if they love each other or want to be together 2. i think it's beautiful when a white person is with a black person 3. mixed children are the very good looking! nancybuck8 repliedNo as long as they treated each other with total love and "respect". So many other cultures have different ways of looking at relationships. Which I find very disrespectful. Every race has these problems, so I am not singling out any one race. Good question though, and yes probably still very controversial, lol... Abbsta_J repliedI would personally have no problem with it, but everyone for himself right? I'm only 15 so i have no kids but I've had this convo with my mum and She said 'If I'm happy and I love him and he treats me right she has no problem with it. i also thinks the community around you may have a factor as many parts of America can still be quite old fashioned and a bit racist still. Talk to your parents but if you want to marry a white woman, go for it! x arcadiainn repliedI thought I would, but when I seen how happy she made my son, it went away in an instant. He was a better person because of her and then I no longer seen her as black but as a person. I am a little ashamed of myself Emmy repliedI wouldn't, so long as it is a nice guy. Jack Bauer my Hero repliedAs long as its a person of the opposite sex i dont mind Natz repliedi would certainly not be bothered if my kids wanted to date or marry interracially. I dont have a problem with it, it would be their lives so let them live it how they want. Michelle repliedHonestly, I would be a little disappointed. I would not be disappointed in my daughter's choice to follow her heart. But I would be disappointed in how society would probably treat her. I would be upset that the life my daughter chose was going to be so difficult. Then again, life is full of ups and downs. No matter which way you turn - someone is going to say that you are doing it wrong. Above all, I would hope that if this relationship gets serious - my kid and my kid's partner would treat each other well and help themselves and their family get through the tough times life will bring. Race shouldn't matter when it comes to finding someone to love. The most important part is that you find someone whose personality is right for you. And honestly, it doesn't matter to me much. I am happy when I see couples of different races becoming more and more common. It makes me think that we are getting closer and closer to a time when the color of someone's skin doesn't matter. :) Who knows? Maybe we will even reach that point in my lifetime. jupiter repliedNot At All.... ! seriously! Prêcïøu§ mª®îa §nøw Prï∩ce§§ repliedNot really. Ahimsa repliedI'd be upset if my children married people who were not good to them or complete losers. I would accept a life partner for my child was great for them and to them, no matter what race or sex they are. Muggins repliedNoooo not at all, Everyone is the same beneath the skin so why should colour bother anyone, My kids would have my blessing, Good luck in what ever happens :) kittysue2000 repliedNot at all. And if you live in a big city, nobody will even notice or care. I have an African American female friend who always dates white guys in NY and never has any problems. A blonde friend in LA always goes for African American or biracial guys and she also doesn't have any issues a1cat.rm repliedAs long as they love and respect each other, treated each other well and they were happy I don't care what the packaging is. Personally I think interracial children are beautiful. Jen M repliednot at all <3 Nat repliedI would get over it. My anxieties would come less from my own stances and more from knowing other people's. I wouldn't want to watch my kid and potential son/daughter in law go through the mean looks and words. Families in particular can be very cruel. I think I'll trust that I raised my daughter to make good choices in life, and if she chooses someone who isn't white, I'll trust that she knows what she's up to. I'd have more trouble accepting someone of a radically different spiritual background...like if my daughter brought home a man who wasn't a Christian. That's fine, but it would cause tension around holidays, grandchildren, everything. 12 holidays repliedno way. if somone likes somebody and it doesn't matter to them than that is all that matters b/c they are the one dating/marrying them not me. and personaly i would have now problem with being in an interracial relationship myself.
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