Michelle V repliedNo! Unless he tells you why he was such a jerk and abusive, then he is not privileged for him to stay with someone so nice! Other girls probably wouldnt have put up with that! He is just being nice for u to take him bak so he can be dominnering all over again!!! If he doesn't tell you why or doesnt give you the explantion u deserve leave him bcaz staying in a one-sided relationship is never a happy one. My mom stayed with my dad like that for 14 yrs. Dont stay with someone who wants everyone to be angry when there angry. Dont put up with stupidty like that. You be happy. Make him be sry! Make him cry like he probably made you cry! Make him cry of how sry he has to be! Otherwise he is not desevrving. Good Luck. Live life! Be happy.

stella maris repliedYou are feeling resentment towards him for all the awful things he did to you. You have every right to feel the way you do and he should never have abused you.
The thing is you know that you deserve better treatment than this, a person who loves their wife should always love them, respect them etc...even put them high up on a Pedestal and always be true to them, it sounds like you want this in your life. Most woman do, so that's not unrealistic.
You must be true to yourself and ask yourself the serious questions about your marriage. Can you live with this resentment? Is there a way to get past everything? Do you love your husband? Can you forgive him? Only you know. Good luck.

sam :] repliedYou should try dating other guys before getting back together with him. It may seem like he's changed but deep down, he probably hasn't. I'm sorry that he was abusive to you. You deserve better than that. Don't let yourself go back to someone who would hurt you like that.

Manders repliedIt is true, if someone really does love you they wouldn't of done that. But then again maybe there's more he isn't telling you. Why he was abusive to you. Maybe you should sit down and talk to him and ask him why he did those things and that it still really bothers you. If he gets mad and does it again, then I advice you to leave the house for the night and maybe he'll realize of what he has done. Men do things to their wives/girlfriend's that we can't explain, and they do things that don't know will hurt us in the long run.
Good Luck!

Craig S repliedforget him, if he hits you then screw him, get out of there now. answer my question please

Dinger28 repliedWas is right word, if he has been making the effort to correct things for YOU then give him a chance.

manzanita repliedwell maybe hes changing. Give him a try but if he raising a hand on you don't even think about it and go somewhere safe.

jeff m repliedneed to try and find someone that respects you for the woman you are. not somebody that does all the wrong things to you. it just not right