My parents thinks I wrong Am IAngellover7880 postedI have been trying to get things to move out of my house. It is hard and expensive to get everything a person needs when getting their first home. My family does everything that they can stop me every time. My parents are giving my sister a vacuum cleaner. I would be okay with it if she really needed one. My sister is 15 years older than me. She has been married for 22 years. My sister has her own home and three vacuum cleaners. I pitched a fit. I wanted the vacuum cleaner for myself. I offered to buy it from them. I would have went out on my own and got one. I've never saw one so cheap! It was $19.99 on an early bird sale. The cheapest one I ever saw was $60.00. My mom said I was being a b*tch about it. My dad called me greedy. It hurts my feelings they feel that way. Am I wrong? additional---------------------- To the people that says I shoukld ask my sister for one of hers. I would but she is so greedy. I asked her for a quarter one day. I liked 25 cents having enough to buy one. She refused to give me a quarter. Our dad was in the hospital suffering from a stroke. I couldn't exactly leave and go some where else to get one. additional---------------------- I mean a Coke out of the vending machine. Sponsored Link-------------------------- revsuzanne repliedYou are out of line on this one. Just keep working on building your "hope chest" and getting out of there. Sarah repliedWhy make a scene? Yeah vacuums are expensive, but man, don't throw a fit. Talk to your sister since she has 3 (4 now) and can certainly sell you one of her old ones. It's her gift and you can't take away someone else's Christmas gift because you want it. That's just greedy. bart_the_1st repliedwell since i have the same problems almost every single day, i usually just tell em what they are trying to do, like in your case you know that they are trying to keep you back, i suggest that u sit em down and you tell them to listen and DON'T interupt, then i would tell them that this is your 1st time moving out and you are VERy excited to be going out into the world by ur self and as you need as much free or cheap things as u need to make your life a bit easier, to not make it a hell hole, and as ur parents they should support that you are exploring the world as they did in ur age and that they should help you get started not stop you and when you are done try not to shout through any of the speech, keep ur cool, don't start a arguement, if they try to interupt tell them in a calm voice "please mum dad let me finish", and also go to ur sister and ask her nicely if you could have the vacuum and stuff cause she doesn't need it and u do and tell her almost the same stuff as to ur parents BUT as if you were talking to a friend. hope i coverd a lot and helped a lot The Schecterizer repliedNo i think you've not stepped out of line I am guessing that at the moment you're the last 'child' to leave the house, and I think your parents seem to be angry because they dont want to lose you. Same with alot of parents, they cant let you go. So theyre making things difficult for you in the off chance that youll come back to stay with them. They should just let you live your life. I-ASK-U-ANSWER repliedyeah you're wrong.. you should just ask your sister for one of her old ones. Rhi repliedit seems to me you're not the one being bitchy. ItzMe repliedIf I was you, I would just ask the sister for one of her old ones. Lynn J repliedYour parents are wrong. Your not wrong
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