balance repliedi don't know but i'm about to find out. i'm getting married in june!!

Nunya B repliedit depends on who you marry.. it can be wonderful or miserable. if you choose well it will be wonderful most of the time, boring some of the time, and suck some of the time. nothing is constantly fun. but the good outweighs the bad by far with the right person.

Mellie repliedI'm no longer married, but I liked it while I was. Even when things were bad, I liked thinking we were trying to work things out. And then we just couldn't work things out.

I hope to marry again someday, but am not in any hurry. But it is nice to be with someone who can't get enough of you. :)

shesho repliedyeah I like it. I always have some one to hangout with and cuddle with when it is cold outside!

Noelle repliedBoooorrrring.

ask_courage repliedAll of the above at one point or another, in the end you have to select a person you want to feel all those ways about.

Lee's Wife repliedi am happy, my husband takes care of me and i take care of him, we are not controlling or bossy, or pick, we keep a clean happy home :)

Kevin R repliedOK ,

clear your mind ,

Think of yourself in a big room with people all around you ,

Out in front of you , you hear a voice , A Women's voice

The voice says , Sir ,
I sentence you to a life of imprisonment
doing hard labor
In a swamp infested penile colony
with no chance for parole

And then double it !

That's marriage !!

Peter N repliedHell

TriAtomicTortoise repliedIt is a mixed feeling. You get through the low times and then you get through fun times. Moreover, it is easier to get sex within a marriage more frequently when you are not fighting.

unhitched repliedShoulda paid for sex. Nuf said.

Sarah repliedI've been with my husband 10 years and we have 4 kids. I couldn't imagine being with anyone else, we have days were we hate each others guts, days it feels like we've only been together a month, moments of stress (financial or what have you) but, I would not in a million years change a thing even through all the peaks and valleys. I've told him, marrying someone is like deciding someone is family no matter what. You can't divorce your parents because of this or that, or siblings, so that's how we look at things...we're in it for the long haul and there have been way more good moments than bad. Can't expect perfection or you'll set yourself up for vast disappointment. Be a realist and it's the best decision of your life. Every day can't be rainbows and butterflies but, every day isn't hell on earth. We had to practice talking to each other so we knew how to work our differences out, if you don't take the time to do that you're lost from jump street! He's my best friend. Oh and you've gotta give the booty up on the regular!!!

Cynthia B repliedIt's like someone holding you under water.

Brunette wife repliedIts wonderful.

My husband and i have been happily married almost 18 yrs and our marriage has been nothing but a blessing for both of us.

We love each other more then anything and couldn't imagine life without the other in it.

e repliedMost married people I have known have hated it.

that guy repliedevery day is a phucking nightmare.....the same nightmare ...over and over and over and over again......

ruby replieda marriage is a lot of what you make of it. when you get into it, you have to realize its not just you anymore. you have this other person in your life that you have to compromise with a lot sometimes. its a lot of work but i think its worth it, its give and take. you have to be very selfless and a lot of the things you do may seem like they're for the other person but in the long run, they end up being for yourself because together, you work towards having a good life with each other. i think a successful marriage is based on knowing how to communicate, being able to sacrafice, knowing when to pick your battles, and the realization that life is not always going to go as planned. it may be a lot of work but just like anything else in life, the things you work for are always worth it.

Ken M repliedsimiliar to being poked with 40 million needles and thats the good part.