I caught 11 year daughter masturbatingEvelynn's Mommy. postedI am a strong Christian and believe in God's ways. I have been practicing Christianity since the day I was born into the realm of God's Green Earth! My Daughter, Evelynn, has been taught Christianity aswell and I expect her to live up to God's standards just as I did. Today I walked into my 11 year old daughters bedroom to pick up her laundry. But to my horror, she was naked on her bed humping a pillow! I dropped the Laundry basket I was holding and screamed at her to stop doing this sinful act! She did not listen, so I walked over to her bed and grabbed the pillow underneath her and then spanked her on the fanny several times! I explained to her that she will be going to hell for masturbating and that it is a very wrong thing to do! She yelled, "I HATE YOU MOM!" and stormed out of the bedroom and began to weep. An hour later, I confronted her and gave her a lecture about masturbating and how she has outraged Jesus Christ and the Ten Commandments. She ran away back to her room and now refuses to come back out. I am horrified that my daughter would do this sinful act! How do I get her to come out of her room and UNDERSTAND that she is going to go to hell now? additional---------------------- This is not a joke! This is serious! God is against masturbating! I do not want my daughter to go to hell, but it looks like she already is! additional---------------------- For heaven sake! Evelynn WILL be going to hell. "Thou shall not masturbate." Sponsored Link-------------------------- Christina repliedUm-hello your daughter is NOT GOING TO HELL i am cathlic and thats totally untrue. Its ok for your daughter to hump a pillow its not likk she was f*ckingg herself geshh. Its just lik if you dont go to church or miss it you arent going to hell. She's experiences puberty and humping is just a little thing! Hope that helped and take a chill pill hunny! Lauren.Plays.Flute. repliedEveryone sins,even you. It mentions in the Bible that NO ONE is perfect, except Jesus Christ. Are you saying You're better than Jesus? or that..you're just like Jesus? That's a sin right there! Oh and btw, your daughter isn't going to hell. As long as you believe that Jesus is your savior.. you're going to heaven. ThAnKiN mY LuCkY sTaRs repliedWell your going to hell For saying she's going to hell and I'm going to hell for saying ur going to hell This is a joke right? Omg live a little give her the sex talk if she's really in it maybe protected sex? She was having her own fun and u ruined it nice going mom.. Her life isn't about god all the time like urs is.. homersimpson134 repliedI'm sorry, but, HOW can you tell your daughter she's going to HELL?!?? Your telling the girl you gave birth too that her whole after life is going to be horrible and she's going to burn (supposedly) in the underworld all because she, humped a pillow. I'm sorry, but, you need to take a look at yourself! She's your daughter. star repliedI'm pretty sure that she is not going to understand if you keep telling her that she is going to hell. Know, if that is what you believe that is fine, but your probably scaring the crap out of her. Besides the fact that she is probably already embarrassed that you saw her. Just let her calm down. And try to take a calmer approach. susie Q repliedshe will not go to hell. She is a normal inquisitive young girl. Sorry to say this to you but I think you need help. You are only hurting your child to tell her the things she is doing are wrong and she will go to hell. she will not. La La La, Elmo's World Keheh repliedEveryone studies the christianity ways differently. It's horrible to find this out the wrong and hard way. Anyways, you can tell her to maybe slowly stop it or that try to understand her to tell her that it's something that you don't approve of. Even though masturbating is actually quite common in every single religion and it's actually healthier than her having sex with someone. I hoped this helps. kelly repliedLike it or not you live in a society that is way different than when you grew up. If catching your daughter doing that, you are lucky, some kids resort to drugs/sex at a young age. People sin everyday that are Christians, swear, lie, cheat...and I am sure you are not perfect yourself. Telling your 11 year old daughter she is going to hell- get real lady, we are going on 2009...you are out of touch with reality. frootloops25 repliedThe bible doesn't state that masturbation Is wrong. It states that lust Is wrong. Instead of yelling at her and telling her that she Is going to hell Isin't going to make eaiser for her and.....Who do you think you are to say she's going to hell??? One of the ten commandments says "THOU SHALL NOT JUDGE" And you just judged her! Now tell me....Are you going to hell now? Is she going to hell??? You wouldn't know because only god chooses who goes to hell! pump11 repliedyour daughter is exploring herself and is doing what any girl is doing, she's not going to hell from now on , knock and don't hit her masturbating is nott a sin. The Flossie repliedwell all kids masterbate growing up... but idk if ur tellin the truth cuz u said that when u caught her she refused to stop. come on, really? idk but i always thought it was natural instinct to stop when some1 caught u doing that...... but in all reallness u should talk to her cuz maybe shes horny for someone at school or edward cullen from twilight lol *..* FoReVeR & aLwAyS *..* repliedyeah. its a huge sin. shes going to hell now. how sad. masturbation is not the way! http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;... http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;... Katie Paris repliedWow, she shouldn't be doing that just because it's weird. And that's child abuse by spanking her. And you live in America, right? Freedom of religion. nickygurl94 repliedYou have got to be kidding me. Remind me how that violates the Ten Commandments again? Nowhere in the Bible is masturbation mentioned at all. No offense but you seem incredibly uneducated. iLax repliedYou people are very inconsiderate of the way that she lives a pure life which is very good. Sike, stop being prude woman, shes a horny little kid and she isnt going to hell for masturbating or there isn't a single guy in heaven. Molly Perez repliedi agree with tigerkittylover " If He loves us as much as I know He does, then He would never, EVER let us be eternally damned." it is true and no one ever said that masturbation makes you go to hell. thats even if "it exists" i believe its just a way to make us fear religion. religion itself is corrupted and we all need to be open minded and look at things from all persepectives not just one. Ian repliedSHE CAN MAKE HER OWN DECISIONS. She does not have to live up to "gods standards". The only person she has to live up too is her own standards. And you spanked her haha worst discipline. Only will make her rebel. And telling someone they are going to hell is the most sinful act i've ever heard. And its natural to want to do things like that. I think what you did is much worst than what she did. And btw GOD ISN'T REAL! actor boi repliedWhat the hell! You need mental help... I am calling CPS..... GET THAT KID OUT OF THE CARE OF THE MENTALY UNSTABLE! I believe in God, but as it is clearly outlined in the Bible, the only way to go to hell is not believing in Him. Alana N repliedDo the opposite of everything you just did! Show love, support and understanding. Don't be demeaning, don't condemn, make tender pleas. Ask questions to draw her out strive to reach her heart, so that she will open up to you. Just show tender mercy just like God did to us! Mayette replieduhmm wow, Relax a bit, it's human nature to be curious, Just because your a strong believer doesn't mean your daughter has to be. lol, heaven must be one lonely place if masturbating means you go to hell. dlamb70 repliedwow. you are going to hell for being such a horrible mother. don't you know there is no such person as jesus christ? and the ten commandments is something made up by the government? masturbation is perfectly normal. it's as common as sex itself. oh wait, you had your daughter through a virgin birth. get over it lady and let her be her own person. Kelley P repliedYou are a horrible woman!! I bet you embarrassed her more than you could ever think. If you had any since you would of left the room and pretend it didn't happen. DONT humiliate you daughter like that! She is growing up! That's life! Come on!! She wont go to hell over that. me. repliedYou clearly know nothing about Christianity or it's creator. Jesus Christ preached love and forgiveness. You sound like an unloving, abrasive person. Read the Bible. Embarrassing your child is not the right way to teacher her right from wrong. I feel sorry for your daughter. Future President repliedI am a strong Catholic to. You shouldn't of yelled at her that bad. Most teenagers masturbate. She isn't going to hell for it. I believe to get her out don't say she is going to hell. First say i am sorry for yelling i shouldn't of reacted like that. But I want to say that I believe it is best if you don't do that. btpSOCCER4LIFE repliedSince when is masturbating a sin? A sin is having sex before marriage, and masturbating is a way to prevent that. This is obviously a joke, and it's retarded. And if it's not a joke, what kind of mother tells their daughter she is going to hell and spanks them for masturbating. Lmao. Good luck.. "Evelynn's mother" courtney h repliedmaybe your being too harsh, telling your 11 year old daughter she is going to hell doesnt help the way she is feeling. you should calmly go to her door and aske to talk to her, dont be harsh, shes only 11 hockeystar repliedeveryone wants to feel something. maybe she is expressing to you that shes hurt or something idk. if youre that worried about it, have her go to a confessional. Cali Babe repliedso? at least she's not having sex. i mean yeah thats kinda weird cause shes 11 and i have a 10 year old sister so its weird. but still teens will always masturbate, boys and girls. i'm a christian too though, my mom would probably react the same way but i'm 18 T repliedWhats worse, BILLIONS OF DEATHS in religious wars, crusades, terrorist attacks, and totalitarian regimes, OR one girl going to a place that doesn't even exist for a unbelivable small 'crime' that is natural human behavior for something that isn't even enough to go to hell for in modern christianity? Troll Emmers repliedI respect the fact that you are strongly attached to your beliefs, but come on you need to be flexible when raising a child and masturbation, contrary to your beliefs, is normal and some people even think it's healthy, so just let go a little bit and your daughter will be fine kay*dee repliedI think you are overreacting. She's 11. Her hormones are taking affect. She's gonna be horny. That's just the way the body works. I feel like you should only become really concerned if you walk in on her having sex. Sit her down and have a calm conversation with her without flipping out on her and telling her she's going to go to hell.
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