WhatHiya postedMy on/off boyfriend that I do love that I've known for almost 3 years keeps talking about my guy friend,Jason. I rarely see Jason, I don't have any classes with him, I see him only for 3 seconds during passing period at school, I barely even know him like I do my boyfriend. I don't kiss him, talk to him late in the night, or give him presents. So WHY does my boyfriend keep talking about him with me! He doesn't say that I cheat on him with Jason, but hes like. Don't talk to him, Don't touch him, Don't even stay in the same room with him. I can understand why he says that because Jason has asked me out 3 times, but I've said NO all 3 times!!! So why is my BF so insecure? about it! It takes me forever to calm him down and not go to his house and beat him up or me trying to convince him that NO, I don't love him! But now, since my BF has kept telling me those things, I sort of have a crush on Jason now when I NEVER did! Should I just cut off ties with my current BF and suffer and hurt him A LOT, starting anew with a guy I know will respect me.....or not and wait for this storm to pass?
Sponsored Link-------------------------- lolly lollly :) repliedeither way you'll suffer, either u stay with your bf and u suffer, of u go with jason and you suffer. up to you. but if i were you i would try to save what youve got first, but telling him he has two choices, either he shuts up bout jason and you uys move along happy happy, or you r going to leave, and then you will have nothing to suffer about, because he made the choice not to trust you, and a relationship really is about trust, and love, and can he prove that he has that for you? curlysimmer repliedHe's doing a power play on you. Go for the respect. YaYa repliedoh boy! Jason probably likes you and your boyfriend probably knows it, I don't know what you should do. Depends whos the bigger jerk. Dylan L repliedI say go for Jason. Jason will treat you right. The other guy sounds like he has a lot of problems. You don't need that. You sound pretty young. Go for the one who you really want to be with. The one who really loves you because in the long run, he's going to be the winner. I hope I helped & if I didn't... sorry for wasting your time. kitkat1804 repliedyour boyfriend has control issues hun. i speak from experience, it will only get worse. hes jealous of your friend and sees him as competition for you. which you may be validating this cause you say you now have a crush on him? try thinking about it this way he asked you out 3 times and you said no? so maybe you just like him because your boyfriend is telling you hes off limits? dont break up with one guy to go out with another unless your sure you reallly care about him, otherwise you may end up losing a friendship.boyfriends come and go but friends are forever taylor replieddont fall for jason just cause he's the underdog and dont let your bf keep buggin you if u've been totally faithful. tell ur bf straight that he better cut it out and have some trust and confidence in u or he's gone.
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